A quote about Nick's youth reveals when he stopped (his words) "being one of the guys" and realised it was time to embrace his vagina-hood:
"Yes I was bullied a bit as a youth, I was. I got to a point when I was 11, 12, 13 years old where I didn't care, made myself an outsider to avoid that - stopped trying to be one of the guys - sort of said, 'fuck you, if you guys don't want me then I don't want you either.' And that's when things started to work out for me as a kid. That's when I found out who I was as a person"
good for you Nick, good for you. Girl power!!